Hazard Reduction Pornography

Published May 10, 2008 ASA, Pornography 3 comments - comment

Porn storm that hit this nation, and attacked from all corners of the eyes of the wind, willy-nilly have to be addressed and faced together the entire community with a variety of efforts as well. Broadly speaking there must be two:

1. Internal Handling: Enhancing self and family resilience
2. External handler: The existence of strict regulation and adequate legal umbrella

IMPROVING THE RESILIENCE OF SELF & FAMILY

Terrible human exposure to the tsunami has made the educators and hie blingsatan invites leaders to rebuild and spread the spirit of the concerns with the whip again affirming the spirit of family life, and make "family resilience" as a learning module that must be transmitted.

Elly Risman is a psychologist, a recipient of "Care Award 2007" version of Young Indonesian Forum, which was a dozen years ago there was vandalism menenggarai will hit the resilience of the systemic character of the nation. Special deal with a storm of pornography today, Elly invites parents reviewed the basic education is not just a theory of religion in every household, but more focus to the practice. Then Elly also urge parents not stuttering technology, and re-evaluate the way we communicate with children and realize that the availability of time for baby is an element that should be a priority. Elly satirical, how families 'modern' has now transformed into a weekend parent. (Though in the mood for the weekend and holidays nasionalpun, so many parents are still working even perform tasks outside the region to domestic and family).

Children and adolescents who have self-defense, usually a product of parents who managed to build family resilience.

Now, to build family resilience, communication becomes a key issue.

Following tips given Elly Risman to build healthy communication within the family:

1. Recognize children
2. Grow self-esteem & self confidence children
3. Familiarise children to think, choose and make their own decisions
4. Provide children with the knowledge and skills to protect yourself and always be alert to any possible dangers that threaten.

WHAT IS WRONG IN THIS PATTERN DURING custody?

Parents do not realize how important it is to explain about touch and how to react to it. Children are not taught from an early age, how to interpret the touch of the 'safe' and what does not. Most parents also do not explain the difference between strangers, families and muhrim.

When diet and lifestyle has changed, where nutrition and protein intake is far better to make children grow faster physically, but parents often fail to align with the readiness of the mental, and spiritual.

Most children entering the adolescent period Baligh without guidance from parents. They own the course explores the new world so foreign to him until they sometimes stumbling through it, including when faced with a virus attack pornography. Not many parents who eloquently explained the danger of free sex and the impact of pornography on children, precisely the opposite in fact his own parents who consciously or not facilitate the entry of toxins.

Furthermore, Elly Risman provide tools how to behave and what we should do;

A. Complete USED IN THE HOME AFFAIRS

Let us look into ourselves, how our relationship with the child so far. Especially how build lasting communication daily and what are the consequences for the establishment of self-esteem of children. For parents who are good at communicating, then the child's soul bags will be full. Like a ping-pong balls filled, it will easily rolled to and fro, so parents have no difficulty in directing children safely pursue the road of life.

B. Prepare the children.

1. Increasing effective communication patterns

2. Planting and discuss about moral values and religion

3. Repair self-esteem; If a child is grown self-esteem, then the child feels himself worthy. Thus the child will have the confidence to determine attitudes, choose and decide.

To beware:

1. With whom children interact
2. What are the activities of the child from time to time
3. Where do children spend time
4. What and how the spectacle as well as their reading
5. The contents of the mobile phone subsidiary (parent galaxy wise shall know by the way, so the child does not feel right and her personal life dikangkangi)
6. What sites are accessed child. Monitor every time the child opens the internet, and never put a computer with internet access in a private room. Computer should be placed in the living room with the screen facing the open space where people passing by, rather than facing a wall, so anyone easily monitor what is being played, worked and accessed child.
7. Sex education needs, but goalnya not to do safely (safe sex) but that the child did not. For example, Islam forbids adultery parishioners approached, so in other words, do not try to approach let alone do it.

PARTNERSHIP

To overcome such a vicious storm, it is not possible parents can do alone without cooperative ties with various parties such as:

1. A fellow member of the family
2. With the school
3. With a domestic servant
4. With driver
5. With neighbors
6. Other communities where children and socializing activities

ADVICE FOR THE YOUNG GENERATION

* Know yourself
* Do not consume any form of pornography
* Decide who want to achieve goals & how to achieve it
* Recognize the impact of technology on themselves and the future
* How mewakafkan self, time and effort for the protection of children and adolescents from the adverse effect of media and technology
* Find / forms anti-porn group who routinely entered into with the related approaches, campaigned aggressively anti-porn and give rewards to the cafe-net cafe porn.
* Critical of various entertainments and write as much criticism to the various mass media
* If you see the show / entertainment / media is no moral worth, immediately made plans escalation of issues, define the concept paper to clarify the positioning guide to every stakeholder.
* The culture of the day without a tv in their homes, once a year, once a month, up to once a week once.
* Join the ASA Young, where the activists mangkalnya student / youth is critical, dynamic, idealistic, and have seabreg potential and achievement and a major concern with the noble values of the nation. God willing, no less cool with the gang of "The Rising Stars," which stated J.